We all have that one friend who we all love to death. BFF.
Well, friendships aren't always rainbows and flowers, there comes times where your friend might have done something to upset you, or vice versa. And, sometimes we all don't know whether to speak up, or let it go and pipe down. Let me tell you something. Don't lie and say, "Everything's fine," when it's really not, speak the truth. Tell your friend what's on your mind, they need to know or else it will just keep happening!
Now I know what you may be thinking, "There going to get mad though," and you don't want that to happen but eventually if you keep it inside and don't speak up...then your going to be the one who gets mad one day and blow up. And your friend wouldn't know why.
Friendships are based on truth.
I know you might not want it to be a whole big thing, so stay calm. Have a heart ot heart discussion with them on how you feel. Stay calm. One sign of a true friendship is being able to share your private feeings and secrets, even the messy, uncomfortable ones.
So what I'm trying to get through to all of you is next time your friend does something you don't like, tell them. Be honest and don't keep it bottled up inside.
And if your friend is tells you something, listen.
If you have something on your mind and want some advice, e-mail me at
-ann-
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